Tabset - Exclude certain tabs from "Defer rendering of tab contents (makes pages load faster)"

Basically, Page Includes when they load on page load will load AFTER the initial page unless in  a tabset where “Defer rendering of tab contents (makes pages load faster)” is enabled and the page include is set to lazy load.

I’d like to set the tabset to “Defer rendering of tab contents (makes pages load faster)” enabled but exclude select Tabs so as to get the delayed loading of page includes.